Thursday, October 27, 2011

Schooling Updates Fall 2011

Well, we are bout 10 weeks into the school year and it feels like a good time to share what we are doing. 
This year's thematic focus is Ancients!

For the first time, some friends of ours have gotten together to have a co-op. 
Since most of us have children reaching into or are Middle School we felt it was time to start taking advantage of our specialities.  In our group we have
a Chemical Engineer who handles science,
a History Major who coordinates Salvation History (this is a curriculum that combines History and Religion since they are so interrelated especially when it comes to Ancients and Medieval Times),
I coordinate Literature (not grammar but Lit analysis, terms/concepts, and some writing as the children are on different levels of grammar and I have limited time),
and two really talented artistic and creative ladies who cover Art and Art Appreciation.

In Science we are covering physical science.  To which I was so thankful to not to have to teach!  I only have to help with home work.  I am not a big fan of rocks, but I was corrected by our Chemical Engineer that it is more a set up of Physics than geology.  Recently they have been studying Phase changes and solutes.  They made Oobleck!  Another time, they boys had to calculate the thickness of aluminum foil.  When it gets really tricky and just to give Karl a chance to share his excitement over this "cool stuff", he reviews their homework and experiments each Sunday evening to make sure they understand the concepts they should be learning.  Yes, when it comes to science, I am all over biology and botany!  Give me animals and plants and I can run circles around Karl but bringing out that periodic tables causes me to have college flashbacks that were none too happy!

In history, like I said before, it is Salvation History.  They have begun with Sumeria/creation and have reached Ancient Egypt with Genesis and Exodus from the Bible.  It really has made the connection for the children to see why the Jewish people ended up in all these places that by just studying History, you would be scratching your head.  I mean we all know the Egyptians had Jewish slaves, so did Persia, but how and why did they get to the different places?  It just seems to be more clear this way.  It also gives a purpose.  History is the story of us and as Christians, we are going to wonder how our faith has moved people through time.

In Literature, it depends on the age group.  My older group is conveniently all Boys.  So, I can tailor their book selections to suit them better.  The boys have started the year with a heavy but very boy novel, C.S.Lewis' Perelandra.  Next week they begin their new novel, The Cat of Bubastes by G.A. Henty.  I love Henty especially for Boys as that was his audience.  Henty wrote Historical Fiction Adventure Books at the turn of the century, 1900.  The characters have strong moral content promoting acts of bravery, chivalry, and perseverance.  This is not a fluff book so common in recent novels for tweens.

My girls group is also my middle age group.  These young ladies have finished C.S. Lewis' The Magician's Nephew. Again starting out the year with a bang.  Oh the pun here!  Both of those books have some creation themes and they are not associated with "the Big Bang".  It has enabled us to use our history/religion to add another layer to their understanding of Lewis' novels.  The children were able to compare and contrast these themes in the book with that of the Bible.  It was so much fun to see that deeper understanding come across their faces. 
 My girls are now a couple of weeks into their new book, Tirzah by Lucille Travis.  This is a book about a young girl, age 10-12, who is part of the Jewish slaves in Egypt and leave through the Exodus.  Again this novel allows the girls to draw a deeper understanding of what it was like in both Ancient Egypt and in the Exodus out of Egypt for the Slaves. 

In Art, we have been exploring different mediums.  I posted pictures of their Aluminum figures.  The past two weeks have been used to work with beeswax crayons in primary tones and combine them to create the other tones.  If you search Waldorf Art, you will have a better understanding of the concept they are working on.  And Beeswax crayons are much different than your standard crayons.  Soon they will be learning how to crochet and will be making either neck scarfs or hats.  I said I will teach the children to weave baskets of reed some time as it does apply to our current studies and it is another skill that is being lost.

The rest of our schooling is done at home.  We are continuing with Well Trained Mind suggestions for grammar but I switched to a writing program from the Institute for Excellence in Writing.
 
As for spelling, I changed to Sequential Spelling.  Since Anton has the most trouble with spelling and is very technical, this program gets away from the vocabulary style of drilling to teaching spelling concepts in patterns.  They take a simple word and build upon it in a pattern format.  Anton and Isabella are both responding to this approach. 

 Math still has us using Math-U-See.  It continues to work and I love it for my tactile/kinetic children.

  Geography is part from the co-op with history and also some workbooks on world geography for grades 4-6. 

 Logic was added this year with Brain Benders, Balance Benders, and Building Thinking Skills all from Critical Thinking Press.  I love this company!  And as a CCD teacher who teaches 7th grade, I can tell you, logic skills are clearly laking in the school age children.  It is a concept that can not be started until they reach 4/5th grade but so necessary for life, math, science, etc.

When the children were asked which foreign language they wanted to begin, since I was feeling behind here, they picked Tagalog.  For those unsure, that is Filipino.  We have a large Filipino population where we live, their Jujitsu instructor speaks it and one of their closest family friends are Filipino.  SO, we said why not!  They have been using Rosetta Stone and LOVE IT!!  Isabella has been trying out phrases here and there with her friend's grandparents.  I will also be adding a computer program on Greek and Latin Roots which will help with language skills but that is on my to do list.

The children are still taking piano.  I have recently been given a stern request from their teacher to tune the piano.  Again it is on my to do list!

Extra Curricular - both children are in soccer for the Fall.  Isabella decided to give it another go and we were able to get her on one of her friend's team.  Anton is with his same team that he has had for the past 2-3 years now. 
Isabella continues with horse back riding lessons and
 Anton is progressing through the ranks as a Boy Scout.  He recently received his Tenderfoot rank and he has not been in a full year yet!  He loves to camp and all things boyish about Scouts.  Karl is very happy to be a part of this with him. 
The children have temporarily stopped Jujitsu due to flooding problems where they have been taking lessons.  We hope to return to it again soon, but we are at the mercy of others.  Besides we have been so busy with everything else, it has given us more time to be together as a family. 
 Isabella is continuing with choir at our church but has decided to drop Schubert Singers.  I think it was smart of her to streamline her activities and leave some time to be creative at home with all her art supplies.  She is still hoping for that art space in the basement. 
I am wondering if we can count the chickens as extra-curricular.  If Isabella had continued with 4-H (another one she dropped to reduce her load) it would have counted.
Both children are also taking CCD classes at our church while Karl and I teach the first year Confirmation students.

As you can see, we are very busy but very active! 
We still love our Friday Night Family Night time to relax!

Pumpkin Patch and Corn Maze 2011

An afternoon with some of our Home Schooling friends at a local farm for a Hay Ride, Corn Maze, and pumpkin patch.


Anton hot on the trail!

The Girls' team trying to get to the flag before the Boys' team!

Isabella in a pondering moment of direction.  Her shirt reads "I'm hiding from my brother!"
One of the Dads trying to organize the teams as the kids decide to bolt through the maze.  I just went to one of the lookout points and watched the children from a high vantage point.



Anton was scoping out the corn maze from the hay ride.  We actually did the hay ride before the corn maze, I just uploaded in reverse order.




Some Recent Art and School Projects


The above is Isabella's creation entitled the Lady with her skirt and accessories.  She had putty bracelets and earrings.



The above are aluminum foil covering pipe cleaners.  The pipe cleaners give structure and support for the aluminum foil creations.  Lounging guy is Anton's the others are from Isabella.  Disregard the backdrop, the bag was a container from a friend to deliver some things to us. I do not own any Louis Vuitton as I would spend more time protecting the expensive item than enjoying life.


Sugar Cube Ziggurats! 
See Mr. Lounge Man has made another appearance to give some perspective!


Once we took pictures of our creations, we needed to dispose of them as this is a bad time to leave sweets around for ants to find!  We do not want to encourage intruders!

A Moment of Silence, Please

A couple of weeks ago, when the kiddos went to check on the chickens when we had returned home, we discovered something dreadful.  One of the hens was dead.  Isabella was very upset and began to take it personally.  I had to explain that we would not be getting testing to find out, that these things happen and we need to do something about the dead chicken.


Isabella prepared the burial "coffin" and tried to make said chicken more comfortable with pulled up clover, their favorite snacking grass. 
 (I was trying so hard to keep my face from cracking up at the absurdity of this, because to them, this was a tragedy!  I mean, she knows biology but logic skills were over shadowed by grief.)


Anton got to work digging a hole.  I had to explain why digging a hole near the orchard was not a good idea and closer to the "field" was a better option.  The hole needed to be deep in order to not attract fox or skunk near the house.



It was a sad moment and Isabella sulked for a bit with her other chickens. 
I made a call to the other girl to come get her chicks as I feared the problem was over crowding as my inspection did not reveal any trauma.  But on further thought, I suspect it was just survival of the fittest as I had noticed that one of the hens seemed to be more by itself than the others on multiple occasions and the last one in at night.

 
Oh, the hard lessons of life and trying to put them into perspective with animals on a farm.  I had warned her about naming her chicks, but she still likes to treat them as pets. 
 I guess it is OK with the laying hens, but what if we actually start raising meat poultry?

Wednesday, October 26, 2011

Achalasia

It sounds like and exotic place, maybe a nice name for a Disney Fairy Land. 
 But no it is not the place Giselle from Enchanted is from, that is Andalasia. 

Well, then what is it? 

It is a our diagnoses for Anton. 

The answers to years of concern, questions, accusations, and stress over why it takes him so long to eat and why he does not weigh enough.  When we first met Dr. Wolfe, she commented that it is probably good we Home School so he can take his time to eat or he would be even smaller.  This combined with having him down Pediasure enabled us to at least keep him on the weight chart for his height.  Now I must explain our journey, and why I have been so busy and quiet about everything.


We have been intensely working with Children's National Hospital in DC for the past 10 months to come to some answers and understanding.  Before this year, I would question doctors to his being so small, under weight.  The last doctor we spoke with shrugged us off and told us he was fine, that we were just comparing him to all the "fat" kids around him.  Well, we left that doctor's office.

It was in January Anton was finally able to give me something to work off.  He said he felt he had to chew his food so much or it would not go down; that it felt like when he swallowed it had to get pass a wall or he would choke.  He would drink 2 - 4 glasses of liquid with his meals.  He sometimes choked or regurgitate his food for no real reason, like not sick.  He would get headaches or migraines from not eating enough.  Meals were painfully slow with Karl and I swinging from one end to the other on how to handle the issue.  Oh the questions!  Was this an example of passive aggressive?  Is he just being stubborn about certain foods?  Why do we have problems with some foods and not others?  Are we aggravating or helping the problem?  Is this a discipline or biological problem?  Is there an undiagnosed food allergy causing the problem?  It went on and on.  And if ourselves were not enough, how about everyone else asking us these same questions or the like.


Dr. Wolfe got to work with a battery of tests and evaluations.  When we first got assigned to Dr. Wolfe, I was so excited because I had seen a video from Children's National Hospital where she is explaining to pediatricians how to look for undiagnosed food allergies and digestive issues that need to be treated in a specialized field.  The markers she listed were dead on to what I listed above as the problems we were facing.  We began traveling all over the DC, Virginia, and Maryland hospitals to have certain specialized tests or procedures ran.  For some it was easier or had to be done outside of the main hospital, like a full battery of allergist testing, blood work ups, and specialized x-rays.  You can follow the link here if you want to know more detail on those hoops we jumped through to narrow down to his diagnoses.

http://www.hopkins-gi.org/GDL_Disease.aspx?CurrentUDV=31&GDL_Cat_ID=83F0F583-EF5A-4A24-A2AF-0392A3900F1D&GDL_Disease_ID=0E11DE8C-7FB7-47AE-BC76-766AC830F7BA


After the results of Anton's endoscopy came through, Dr. Wolfe thought is was time to bring in Dr. Darbari.  She had mentioned to me that we might need to see him after one of Anton's X-rays came back abnormal, he had the barium picture of the "bird's beak".  It is in the information from the link above, but it means the esophagus is wide at the top and pinched and the bottom when it reaches the stomach.  We got our appointment with Dr. Darbari, he specializes in dysphagia (difficulties in swallowing) and peristalsis (inability of smooth muscles to get food to the stomach).  He actually created the website information pages I have listed here in links for you.  Dr. Darbari was located as John Hopkins but Children's recently acquired him to their staff as he became more focused on children, most of his patients are 12 - 15 years of age with the occasional infant/toddler.

Anton endured the dreaded manometry test and it was what we needed to finalize the diagnoses.  Karl and I met with Dr. Darbari earlier this week to discuss the findings and what it meant.  Basically, we have to do something.  If we do nothing, it will get worse.  He showed us the graphs from Anton's test, showed us the pressure readings for normal and where Anton's results measured up.  It was not good!  Apparently only 1/2 of the time he swallows food or liquids the muscles and nerves push it down like it is suppose to do.  The other 1/2 of the time it either pushes it back up or the muscles just stop and it just drops down.  Then when the food or liquid comes to the lower esophageal sphincter, it is suppose to relax and let food into the stomach.  Anton's gets tighter to prevent food from entering.  In other words, once enough pressure gets built up, the food gets pushed into the stomach similar to a syringe forcing medicine through the needle.  As the food/liquid mixture builds up in his esophagus, it causes stretching of the esophagus, which causes the muscles to push the food down work even less.


So what are our options?


Dr. Darbari walked us through the options and the pros and cons of each.  We have medication, two types of endoscopy procedures or surgery.  Click on the link if you want to know these is greater detail.
 http://www.hopkins-gi.org/GDL_Disease.aspx?CurrentUDV=31&GDL_Cat_ID=AF793A59-B736-42CB-9E1F-E79D2B9FC358&GDL_Disease_ID=0E11DE8C-7FB7-47AE-BC76-766AC830F7BA


Right now Karl, Anton, and I are reeling from all the information and weighing each of our options.  Dr. Darbari told us to not make the decision right away but spend time coming to the best choice for us.  He definitely had his preferences and helped us eliminate two of the options.   Anton has been working through his feelings about it all too.  He is struggling and thinking about what all of this means.  He has hope that he can "be normal".  Now that he has hit his tweens, he is starting to worry about being "different" in a bad way.  He asked me one day, "Am I weird?  Like strange or bizarre?"  Finally he has some answers to those questions.  And last night as he tossed up his dinner from two hours before, undigested, into the toilet, he told me, "those potatoes really were good."  Oh poor kid, he was concerned about me thinking his throwing up was because the dinner was bad.  It just breaks your heart.


So we are asking for prayers to know the right decision and take the right steps to help Anton.